Haven't had time to look at the house nearby and it's got drainage system installed already. Darn, missed the chance to ask for an estimate. I wonder how far the other house has progressed.
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Vamp
Haven't had time to look at the house nearby and it's got drainage system installed already. Darn, missed the chance to ask for an estimate. I wonder how far the other house has progressed.
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Edo Pack Chocolate Soft
The picture is dated 2008 March. Yikes!!! This chocolate was covered in cacao powder and reminded me of Winter Cacao Pocky. I don't recall them being bad, so I guess they were OK. Sorry, that's all I can remember.
Last day
After that, took mom grocery-shopping. Went to Mrs. K's to pick some figs. Her fig tree is tall and fruits are big and plenty. If dad didn't chop off so many branches, our tree would have yielded a lot more too.
Everyday there's been at least one meat eaten out. And it was mostly Chinese food. My body feels weird. There's something bad in Chinese food... The grease? MSG? Both?
Monday, August 29, 2011
More meals
Uncle and aunt Y didn't have lunch, so we went to that noodle and congee house which I've gotten so tired of. Ran into grandaunt Y! Well, I suppose if we've gone elsewhere, cousin K wouldn't have had a chance to see her again. Forgot to take a group picture, though.
Went home and showed uncle Y how to set up folders and filing in his Hotmail. He knew almost nothing about mail management. I ended up helping him file most of his mail. It was after 4 when they left. Didn't get to take cousin K to Richmond. (T_T)
Then we met again for dinner at 6, plus brother's gang. I'm glad that uncle and aunt Y liked the Taiwanese restaurant. (She's an awesome cook so they're very picky.) There was a Lamorghini parked right outside. Orange is an unusual colour and it looked like the one on display in a certain mall.
Sunday, August 28, 2011
Costco
Cousin K treated us to a huge family dinner at a Chinese restaurant. There were 10 of us. Lots of leftovers.
Saturday, August 27, 2011
Gastown
Woke up again at around 11:30. I tried to stretch my body back into shape and got out of bed at noon. (The stretching didn't help much, but I was able to function nevertheless.) Washed my hair, ate brunch, and out the door at 1:45 with cousin K to Gastown. She was hoping to buy some souvenir t-shirts.
The trip was smooth. I even got a good parking spot. $3 for an hour. It should be sufficient. She found the t-shirt successfully, even bought a vest for cheap. My mind was so clouded, I thought our parking expired at 3 while it was actually 3:30. I even rushed back to my car. There were stuff that we wanted to, but couldn't look at. Not willing to waste the remaining 15 minutes, we went into a nearby handbag store, but was scared by the price-tag and pushy sales lady. We ended up wasted 8 minutes, which was 25 cents. Oh well. It's only 25 cents. But I'm more upset about me screwing up the time.
Then we went home for a snack (soy milk and biscotti). I ate a bit too much. Then I tried to work on L's logo but felt asleep at the desk. Bad. Went to pick up aunt L at 5:45, and arrived at uncle Y's at 6. He was eager to show us his trip pictures from China.
Aunt Y's home cooking's always great. Ate too much. Cousin K insisted to wash the dishes so I only got to dry them. Their son H came home, took some food and went downstairs to eat. When we were done washing, it was too late to play with his dog. Oh well... (seemed like aunt Y didn't want us to.)
BTW, the Lindt chocolate bar aunt L gave me today, expired 2010 April 30. Mom said it doesn't matter. Is it really safe to eat?!?!?! (T_T)
Friday, August 26, 2011
Duna Kavics
Some shop is selling 6 bags for $10 on E-bay, shipping is $6. Which makes each bag $2.67, not cheap:
The Legendary Hungarian DUNA KAVICS. It's being produced since 1952. A real Hungarian treat!
This shop sells it at $3.50, shipping extra, yikes!
This site seems to have a detailed article, but it's not in English. Don't know how it tastes. Oh well!
Night market
After lunch, we went to see aunt Y. She looked more plum (probably thanks to the iv) but still couldn't eat anything. Still no appetite and couldn't swallow.
I was more than an hour early, but my chiropractor let me standby. The appointment was badly needed. We were done by 2:50.
By request, I took cousin K back to yesterday's Italian bakery for afternoon-tea cakes. They were kinda small, so 4 for the 3 or us. We also stopped by the Chinese supermarket across the street, but didn't buy anything because the price wasn't good.
By the time we sat down at home to eat those cakes, it was around 4. They were kinda warm from being in the trunk. I promised to pick up aunt L to go to the night market at 5, but the market actually opens at 7. So I lay down to rest my back. Almost fell asleep. Mom didn't want to go, so it was me, cousin K and aunt L. Picked her up at 6:10, and got there 15 minutes later. We found a very good street parking spot. (Otherwise $5 parking.) We just chatted inside the car until 6:45 and then entered the market.
Aunt L was interested in the spiral potatos but we were almost full. We bought water at a cream puff vendor where every drink comes with a cream puff. (I dropped my glass water bottle and it broke.) The cream puffs were delicious!
Aunt L ran into 2 of her ex-colleagues, not once, not twice, but 3 times! Wow! We finished looking and went back for dessert: those red bean filled taiyaki. It's always good and a must. Although we didn't have room for the spiral potato, we were satisfied. We even got one takoyaki to take home for mom.
After dropping aunt L off, got home around 10:30, exhausted.
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Vietnamese cafe
Aunt L treated cousin K (including mom and I) to a Vietnamese cafe for lunch. Their sandwiches were awesome! (I was hungry, so it probably tasted better than normal. And, I forgot to take a Pinky picture!) The 4 of us shared 2 orders of sandwiches and one large beef noodles.
After lunch, I thought I'd take cousin K to a genuine western bakery for some bread which she prefers. Nobody, no one, was interested to leave the car when I arrived at A's favorite Italian bakery. Of course I intended to buy her the bread so I didn't say anything except for I wanted to look at something myself. Hoping for raisin buns or non plain bread, I was disappointed. However, I got some day-old biscotti which originally sell for over a buck a piece. $4.50 got me a good size bag. When I was ready to pay, a lady who's been picking out pieces of cake was still asking the clerk tons of questions, like what's in this cake, what's it like, etc. Sigh... Then the clerk was very slow too. I know I probably had a super long face and look evil, but can you blame me? I had 3 seniors waiting for me in a cinching hot car. That annoying customer even couldn't make up her mind on "would you like a bag"! Sigh... (See? I had more than enough time to take a few Pinky pictures in there. I was extremely tempted to shoot the cake display so I can show cousin K their selection later. But it didn't seem appropriate so I held back.)
Then we all started eating figs. Both Mr. K's and ours. I had to brush and put canker sore gel on again. By the time we stepped out, it was 4.
Cousin K read a magazine article about Commercial Drive and showed some interest, so I took her there thinking we'd spend an hour or two. Nope, she didn't even want to stop. So we just drove by the area. There're plenty of cafes but I couldn't see much else.
I've already given up the idea of going to Granville Island so I stopped by Fujiya near Clark. Almost bought some Japanese curry cubes. Came out, phoned aunt L as I want to treat her to tonight's Japanese dinner. But the lawn mower man hadn't shown up, and she wanted to stay home. Then I called mom telling her I'd pick her up for dinner. But she said she wanted to keep sewing, and wanted to clear out some stuff that's been sitting in our fridge. That's so wrong!
Amazingly, it was 5, and I felt that we'd still have time for Granville Island. (Cousin K likes to go to places so I try to stuff the day full.) However, she wasn't as enthusiastic and stressed that she's been there before. Maybe she was tired? I only took her to the market, bakery, and net loft. No water-side walk this time.
Then we went to Ajisai for our favorite chirashi. Haven't been there for half a year, and their quality is still awesome as before. Took a walk at the LD nearby, and we went home. Uncle Y is gonna take cousin K to a community center gym early morning... like 6:30 tomorrow. Way too early.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Meeting
First care meeting at dad's nursing home this morning. As expected, mostly complains, especially about dad's shredding his diapers, peeing, spitting, and shooting snot. Mr. W has been moved to another floor. Dad seems to be happy to have the room to himself.
Went across to the hospital to see aunt Y. She looked slightly better than yesterday, but still couldn't eat anything.
Third stop, took cousin K to see grandaunt Y. She's been doing well since her hip-replacement surgery. Again, she won on bill-snatching. She treated us to lunch last time cousin K was here.
I was thinking of taking cousin K to Metrotown... but she started showing me her tomato soup. We ate dinner at 7. Took a short walk (still no sign of the friendly cats). Didn't get to do much today again.
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
Visits
After lunch, we brought some fried rice and fruit to dad. He looked extremely puzzled when I asked him why he pushed Mr. W onto the ground last night. So extreme, it looked fake. But I do think he could not remember. Mr. W said yes, but he was talking to mom in dialect so I couldn't understand much.
We went grocery shopping on our way home. Cousin K needed to make a few calls. Then she showed me one of her cream soup with no cream. (Substitute with potato.) It was cream of broccoli, simple and delicious.
So, technically speaking, didn't take cousin K to any fun place today.
Monday, August 22, 2011
Negro Odzacar Grla
What a name! Since I haven't tried any, I can only rely on the online community for info. And here's what I found.
- NEGRO ODZACAR GRLA: Do you know how fucking heavy this “black licorice chimney sweeper for your throat” is? In WWII the Nazis set up a puppet regime in Croatia called the Ustashas and their job was to kill every Serb, Jew and Gypsy they saw. Today calling a Croatian an Ustasha is like calling him a nigger. Then there’s this Serbian candy that’s been around since WWII, called Negro! With a guy on it that is dressed exactly like an Ustasha. What the fuck!?
- Our first candy treat is (hopefully) going to be the most politically incorrect one.
Apparently Yugoslavian in origin, it has apparently been used as a prank candy for Halloween, due to the culturally inflamitory name stamped in big red capital letters on the side...
PNE
Ended up sleeping for 4 hours only. Oh well... my own fault. Set alarm at 7:30 for a 8:15 pickup. Woke up by brother's phone call at 7. Turn out pickup was delayed for an hour. Worked out fine for me.
It was raining all day non-stop. We arrived at around 9:40 and were super lucky to find street parking thanks to some people leaving. Perhaps they decided that the rain wasn't worth it.
After the dog show, we went to the Home Depot area. Didn't expect to find an estimator for our drainage system. Next, we went to the Safeway barn. I though there would be produce but noooo, only livestock. It stunk too. It was a rare chance to touch farm animals but mom and cousin K didn't want to stay long. Oh well...
It was lunch time. We all had our hands stamped and brother showed us to a nearby Chinese restaurant off the site. It was pack! I bet everyone there was a PNE goer. My back's been feeling really bad so I ditched my regular handbag and went for a waist pouch. Hence no Pinky, no Pinky picture. Seems like this restaurant is used to crowds. A simple menu helps. Quality is quite good too.
After lunch, we went back to PNE to finish off with Market Place. There were lots of massaging machines and cleaning tools. Almost bought one of those spin mops. At $50, no way.
Sunday, August 21, 2011
ER (2)
I'm exhausted. Have not been able to function. 2-hour sleep (bad), back aches (bad), body aches (bad), throat sore from too much talking to medical staff and dealing with friends and relatives' phone calls (bad), dehydrated (bad)...
Still took mom and cousin to London farm. Visited dad and aunt (she's doing better, but now we know that she's terminally ill and probably wouldn't see the end of this year.) Had dinner near brother 's place, came home and it was after 9. I almost pass out many times when driving home.
Aunt Y's poop's stink hasn't gone away. I tried to light some candles to neutralize that, 3 out of 5 existing candles don't work. (Wick either too short or buried too deep in wax.) Luckily, got some new ones. The big one doesn't have any container so I was digging up and down for something to put it on. Finally finished with the candle business and tried to take some Ninjiom Chinese throat syrup but we're out. Tried to eat an orange to help my throat but I'm too full. Tried to make it into orange juice but the juicer had not been used for several year. I washed it but my back and shoulders feel too bad and couldn't squeeze. While doing that, I found out some of the stink was from a mini trash bucket for food waste. The stink came from byproducts from mom butchering a fish yesterday. By then I was already off the edge. The bag was leaking liquid too. Rotting oozing fish intestines. Super gross. Trust me, s u p e r g r o s s !
I layered it into another bag, and found out some contents had leaked and fused with the bucket. OMG I lost it. Mom said she was going to use that as compose. Sigh... OK she didn't realize she forgot to take it outside... or did she? Perhaps she thinks we can make compose in the kitchen!
So, ugly. We had a fight. Cousin K knows about my dark side. So I said to her, you see my luck? God wants to torture me till I kill myself. Mom then said, let's do it together. Let's drive into a wall. Sigh... This is when I loose all respect towards her as a mom. Is it just a beautified illusion that mothers would always guide children away from harm????? I told cousin K the exact same thing again. How can I have any hope with my mom keep pushing me over the edge? Mom said, let's see who dies first. I said, you think dying first wins? She said, not win, but relieve. I said, you think relieve wins? Sigh... endless... hopeless...
Thought my problem would resolve when dad went to nursing home. How wrong.
Will take cousin to the free PNE tomorrow. Brother's pickup arrives around 8am. Need to go to bed N O W ! I'm exhausted and aching all over, but too angry to sleep.
Aunt Y's poop's stink hasn't gone away. I tried to light some candles to neutralize that, 3 out of 5 existing candles don't work. (Wick either too short or buried too deep in wax.) Luckily, got some new ones. The big one doesn't have any container so I was digging up and down for something to put it on. Finally finished with the candle business and tried to take some Ninjiom Chinese throat syrup but we're out. Tried to eat an orange to help my throat but I'm too full. Tried to make it into orange juice but the juicer had not been used for several year. I washed it but my back and shoulders feel too bad and couldn't squeeze. While doing that, I found out some of the stink was from a mini trash bucket for food waste. The stink came from byproducts from mom butchering a fish yesterday. By then I was already off the edge. The bag was leaking liquid too. Rotting oozing fish intestines. Super gross. Trust me, s u p e r g r o s s !
So, ugly. We had a fight. Cousin K knows about my dark side. So I said to her, you see my luck? God wants to torture me till I kill myself. Mom then said, let's do it together. Let's drive into a wall. Sigh... This is when I loose all respect towards her as a mom. Is it just a beautified illusion that mothers would always guide children away from harm????? I told cousin K the exact same thing again. How can I have any hope with my mom keep pushing me over the edge? Mom said, let's see who dies first. I said, you think dying first wins? She said, not win, but relieve. I said, you think relieve wins? Sigh... endless... hopeless...
Thought my problem would resolve when dad went to nursing home. How wrong.
Will take cousin to the free PNE tomorrow. Brother's pickup arrives around 8am. Need to go to bed N O W ! I'm exhausted and aching all over, but too angry to sleep.
ER (1)
After a short while, more noises. This time it came from our hallway. It was mom taking dad's commode downstairs. Aunt Y pooped her pants. What happened was, she wanted to go number 2, but felt nauseous and couldn't get up. So she banged on the wall trying to get help. It wasn't loud enough and she pooped in her pants. (Extremely gross and stinky.) It was so stinky, it woke mom up. By the time I joined in, mom was helping her onto the commode. Aunt Y was looking very bad. She was completely limp. I was holding her up around her armpits from behind, and was shocked to find out she's down to the bare skin and bones! She kept saying she wanted to vomit and couldn't breathe. It was time to call 911.
I went upstairs to do that since the wireless handset in that room is useless. I couldn't answer the operator's question of "whether she's changing colour or not" because I couldn't see her face. Then I realized she could die. After hanging up, I went outside to standby as instructed. Although I'm not exactly fond of aunt Y, that few moments felt like an hour.
First the firetruck came. 2 paramedics started tending to her while one took info. Then 2 more ambulances showed up and all of a sudden there were 7 paramedics in our basement. I thought this would wake cousin K up, but nope. She must be very tired form the flight despite acting energetic. Aunt Y was given oxygen, and then carried out in a back-pack chair by one of the guys. Mom went with the ambulance since they could only take one person, and I drove there after. The whole house was stinking badly.
Aunt Y's blood pressure was too low and heart beat not regular and with a murmur, and her skin was icy cold. (Scary.) I over heard the paramedics said that they had not have a good reading (of something) since they arrived at our house. Not sure what that meant, but it really didn't look good. Mom said when I was upstairs calling 911, aunt Y was turning purple.
All the time, staff came in-and-out, asking similar questions. They gave her a chest x-ray and suspected that she might have a blood clot in her lungs. A CT scan was quickly arranged and risks explained. At the end, there was no blood clot, which was good. However, they couldn't find out why her blood pressure was so low. Poor aunt Y got poked and pressed multiple times from internal bleeding exams. She had been nauseous and vomited every time she was moved (mainly for the CT scan). She was throwing up dark green bile. After the 5th time, they finally gave her nausea drugs.
One of the doctors ask if anyone's told her what stage of cancer she's in. We couldn't answer because we never heard anything. Then it dawned on me that aunt Y may have very little time left. The doctor also brought up resuscitation wish issue. Since she has osteoporosis and so tiny, CPR will for sure break her ribs. I didn't think she had a clear enough mind to deal with it at that point. Nevertheless mom kind of asked her. She didn't say anything. It's a tough issue for anyone.
Mom was commenting on how the IV fluid pumped aunt Y up, and she looked much better. Even her panda eyes disappeared. 2 liters went in and she never needed to pee. I suppose she was extremely dehydrated. Seemed like the potassium (or was it sodium???) they gave her helped too. Then the second bag of IV started and after a while she needed to pee. We were asking the staff for bed pan every... I had no idea how long. After 3 times, they decided to set up a catheter. I suspect there weren't enough bed pans in ER.
20 minutes later, we were home. Felt like a whole year. There were still aunt Y's poop and the commode to clean up. Mom was doing that. (Sorry... I'm unable to face that kind of stuff...) The house stunk because when mom was trying to put the tighter lid on, the paramedics were leaving and she had to leave immediately. The seat cover was down but not air tight. I still hadn't showered from last night so I had to do that. All the running around and staying up made me feel sticky.
Since I didn't leave a note before I left, I worried that cousin K might panic after waking up in an empty house. But that was unnecessary. She finally got up after I finished showering. Turn out she heard the wall banging, but thought it was me hammering upstairs. Yikes... (T_T)
Ended up going to bed at 9:30 am. Need to get up at 1:30 pm the latest if I were to take mom and cousin K to London Farm.
But... but... right at noon, the hospital called me to update aunt Y's condition. (Which gave me and mom 2 hours sleep each...) Aunt Y was doing well, but they're keeping her there for at least a few days. Plus, for terminally ill (?!) patients, they will not give CPR. I didn't know she's terminally ill. I thought lung cancer can be shrunk with just pills. I've been wrong.
The first day my cousin visits, and this... yikes...
Saturday, August 20, 2011
Airport
Picked up cousin K from the airport. It went smooth except I was unusually frustrated about red lights. (Well, we hit a construction zone and way above average red light frequency.)
Cousin K's flight served no lunch so we went for an afternoon mini meal. Couldn't eat dinner at normal time so we just had some soup instead. Aunt Y had some leftover noodles she brought back from dim-sum with friends. We went for a walk in the neighbourhood.
Cousin K was super talkative. (However... somewhat repetitive...) We plan to have afternoon tea at LF as a late lunch tomorrow so I'd better sleep early.
Friday, August 19, 2011
Milka Noisette
Milka chocolate is always good. This Milka Noisette definition at an online shop says...
Milka Noisette is delicious with creamy-nutty Noisette Milka Alpine Milk Chocolate in an extra-smooth, 100% Alpine milk. Cocoa: 30% less than in the Alpine milk chocolate. Warning: may contain traces of other nuts, peanuts, and wheat protein.I didn't know Amazon sells Milka chocolate too. Wow...
Drain (2)
The estimator never called. Grrr...
Did some more cleanup and dug up a pile of used brown paper envelope. Why were they kept? Why were they kept for 20 years??? (OK there are some unused ones too.) Also found a collection of old freebie day-timers form banks etc. The oldest one was from 1981. OMG! Why why why??? (T_T)
Washed my car. I waited too long (for the sun to go low enough not to shine directly into my eyes). Dug up the tub of Pink Solution but no time to cook it. So... the car was washed without any detergent. Not sure if it would be any good, but still better than nothing.
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Drain (1)
Chances are, we need to replace the whole drainage system. It involves digging up the sidewalk. We're looking at 20 - 30 thousand bucks... (T_T)
That guy was definitely up to no good. He disappear so fast, it was like running away from us. His ID was government certified something something... Oh, now looking back, he didn't wear the ID on his chest or neck, but kept it inside the binder. He only flashed it to me a few times. OMG... OMG... I'm so thankful to have such good neighbours.
OMG... I don't think I can survive alone... I'm clearly the one evolution will discard... (T_T) (T_T) (T_T) (T_T) (T_T)
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Muffler
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
Costco
Then dinner at McDonald's, A's favorite restaurant. (T_T) Why is he so picky about food, yet chooses McDonald's as his best??? That branch, however, was the most deluxe one I've been to. It was huge and there were leather sofas in front of a big screen TV.
After dinner, we went to Walmart for stuff that Costco didn't have. Picked up some fresh corn form a road-side vendor van. Thanks for the chips and stuff.
Out of the 6 ears of corn I got, 3 are very small and under developed. One even has a hole on the side. We let the vendor pick for us. That was a mistake.
The 3 half-bags of chips from A were not half, but only a mere handful. The bags were oily, sticky, and gross. I do appreciate hand-me-downs, but these... makes me feel like a scavenger. He still can't distinguish between "sharing" and "discarding". Sigh... (T_T) Well, he did give me lots of other new stuff too. Maybe I shouldn't think this way. But I can't help in...
Monday, August 15, 2011
White Lover
Chiropractor
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